tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19374727.post113578664269280902..comments2023-12-21T04:25:11.724-06:00Comments on party girl's new world: sex edParty Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03803387514872401131noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19374727.post-1136002864479335512005-12-30T22:21:00.000-06:002005-12-30T22:21:00.000-06:00I have to admit, the first time this happened it f...I have to admit, the first time this happened it freaked me out a little, so I stopped. She looked at me like I was crazy (there was a communication barrier), so I continued with the planned course of action, and she started again. I ended up making a game of it, put it in, she makes noise, take it out, she gets silent. It was like an on/off switch, and when I moved back the USA it made me appreciate a good conversation with a woman.MrHingehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18257146543048335013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19374727.post-1135991308419344362005-12-30T19:08:00.000-06:002005-12-30T19:08:00.000-06:00Duck: that's funny. Did you enjoy it, or did you w...Duck: that's funny. Did you enjoy it, or did you want to tell them to shut-up?Party Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03803387514872401131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19374727.post-1135935379643754662005-12-30T03:36:00.000-06:002005-12-30T03:36:00.000-06:00I might be opening a can of worms is Will reads th...I might be opening a can of worms is Will reads this, but I lived in Japan for 2 years.<BR/><BR/>Upon inserting your dick in a Japanese girl she would start to moan/cry like there was no tomorrow. <BR/><BR/>It was definitely a cultural thing cause nearly all of them did it the say way.MrHingehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18257146543048335013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19374727.post-1135893923040678752005-12-29T16:05:00.000-06:002005-12-29T16:05:00.000-06:00Rob: so, as I am in the porn industry I can listen...Rob: so, as I am in the porn industry I can listen to it.<BR/><BR/>(kidding)Party Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03803387514872401131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19374727.post-1135875991814324992005-12-29T11:06:00.000-06:002005-12-29T11:06:00.000-06:00I think being comfortable with who you are and bei...I think being comfortable with who you are and being comfortable telling your mate what you want and what you're into comes with age. (also with how comfortable you are with your mate and they shouldn't be judgemental. As soon as someone becomes judgemental about something, communication goes out the window and it breaks down.) However, yes communication, talking dirty during sex is an easy way to point out what you like and what feels good, or don't like. If a guy is doing something too hard I am going to immediately tell him. It's not benefiting anyone. I am going to hurt like hell the next day and not be happy about it. He is going to think he did something right and keep doing it. No one wins. I am sore and angry and he thinks he is either a stud or confused that I am not getting off. This brings up fakeing it. Seriously, why? Again, it's a lose/lose for everyone. I haven't faked it since high school. I learned my lesson then.<BR/><BR/>Jay: when I was 25/26-ish I hooked up with an 18 year old. (He was out of school.) and yeah, I'd like to think I taught him a few things. Also, I can't speak for Karen (who by the way, sounds awesome) however, I was just looking for a boy-toy. I think it was a great deal of fun for all.<BR/><BR/>Unthink: hopefully if you and I and all other women will do this then men will get a clue and stop. (Seriously, it hurts like hell)<BR/><BR/>Rob: it wouldn't let me download it. (my computer is very slow. Safe to listen to it on low volume when I return to work?<BR/><BR/>HomeyG: Yes, passion. Passion, lust, emotionsParty Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03803387514872401131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19374727.post-1135828489340704852005-12-28T21:54:00.000-06:002005-12-28T21:54:00.000-06:00I have pondered for awhile here on how to answer t...I have pondered for awhile here on how to answer this one.<BR/><BR/>I watched my first hardcore porn when I was 15, (I'd seen the softcore stuff on Cinemax much earlier, but I'm not counting that here.)<BR/><BR/>My first impressions were that what I was watching were "the pros". This is what sex is like when you REALLY know what you're doing. At 15, I was an amateur, (Actually, I lost my virginity at 17. To me, too young and it wasn't the best experience. But that's another story.) Porn actors knew everything there was to know about sex.<BR/><BR/>This reality changed drastically when I turned 19. I was living in California and thought myself to be quite the stud... until I met Karen.<BR/><BR/>Karen was 28 and with hindsight being 20/20, I'm pretty sure she was just looking for some young cock to fuck around with and teach a thing or two in the process. Everything I knew about sex up to that point was turned on its ear. The first time I had sex with her I nearly passed out. To this day she is, A)The best lay I've ever had, and B)The best blowjob I've ever had. She taught me that porn is, for the most part, utter bullshit. Real people generally don't have the imagination nor the physical accumen to perform as porn stars do. And that's just it. Porn is a performance. It's a fantasy, geared mostly towards men, to stimulate them in a manner that is more exclusive to men, that being from a <B>physical</B> standpoint. Porn geared towards women is <B>SO</B> much more emotionally involved.<BR/><BR/>I think I've talked long enough here. In short, I don't really get into porn much these days, with the notable exception of Andrew Blake, (Whose work is just so visually stunning,) or BDSM porn. (Which turns me on in many, many ways besides sexually.)<BR/><BR/>The end. ;PJay Adkinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07152799314201232528noreply@blogger.com